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Monday, December 28, 2015

2015 Book Recap

Weak year for reading.. but I had baby and for a couple of months I didn't even know what day it was so I'm going to cut me some slack.

  1. The Forty Rules of Love: A Novel of Rumi by Elif Shafak - Didn't Like (just was not what I was expecting and the rules were kind of stupid and forced into the story)
  2. A Feast for Crows (A Song of Fire and Ice #4) by George R.R. Martin -- Liked (now on to book 5!)
  3. The Fourth Trimester by Susan Brink -- Liked (gave some very good suggestions on how to approach the first few months of a baby's life.. and from my own experience the first few months really are so different than afterwards)
  4. The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins -- Liked/Didn't like (Mixed feelings.. while the book had me wanting to keep reading to know what happened, the main character was such an idiot you just wanted to pull her out of the book and slap her which made it hard to want to keep reading.. so there was that struggle.)
  5. We Were Liars by E. Lockhart -- Didn't Like (this book was just plain stupid.. I don't understand why anyone liked it)
  6. Looking for Alaska by John Green -- Liked (love this author.. another good one by him)
  7. Priceless by Marne Davis Kellogg -- Liked (cute fun read)

Didn't end up reading anything that I Loved, which sucks but there's always next year. I feel bad that I only read 7 books this year. Maybe 2 books per month was a bit ambitious knowing that I was going to have a baby... 


Year
Goal
Actual
2013
1 book/month, 12 for the year
17 books
2014
2 books/month, 24 for the year
21 books
2015
2 books/month, 24 for the year
7 books

Goal for 2016: 1 book/month - 12 for the year

For Book Recaps from previous years:
2013
2014


Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Sad time to be Muslim - #ChapelHillShooting

This morning I woke up to my Facebook newsfeed flooded with articles of a triple murder that occurred yesterday in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. 3 young muslims, college students, shot execution style in their own home by a 46 year old white male. I flipped through article after article trying to see if any other source would give more information. A short time later I found an article that said the police have not made any comment about the motive but the article stated that the man who turned himself in for the murders was an atheist and his Facebook page made mention of negativity towards religion. Ok... sounds like a hate crime... right? Then after more time goes by I see some articles are now saying this incident is being related to a "parking dispute between neighbors" ... UMMM... WHAT?

So you want me to believe that an ongoing dispute over a parking spot caused a 46 year old grown man to get so enraged that he somehow found his way into the home of 3 kids (ages 23, 21, and 19) and shot each of them in the head execution style? How did he get into their home? Wow .. I mean.. it makes me want to see the parking spot in question. A parking spot so special it was worth not just one, not two, but THREE LIVES. I'm sure it didn't matter to the 46 year old that the 23 year old victim, Deah Shaddy Barakat, was a dental student; or that the 21 year old, Yusor Mohmmad had just gotten married to Deah only 2 months prior and was applying to dental school; or that the 19 year old victim, Razan Mohammad Abu-Salha, the sister of Yusor Mohammad, was in college getting her bachelors. These weren't terrorists or extremists... these were normal average muslim kids, living normal average lives. Well maybe not average. They were all involved in charitable work and they were smart kids that were involved in their community. So maybe better than average. Oh but wait.. the two girls wore head scarves, hijab, - so it was plain to see that they were muslim.

When did being a muslim in this country become a crime or a reason to be targeted? I don't know when it happened but it is ignorant to think that it hasn't happened. After reading about this merciless tragedy, I read Facebook statuses of two girls today who were also targeted and threatened. One girl was followed and stalked for several minutes, and as she called 911 out of fear, she had a gun pointed at her with a white male yelling "watch the f*ck out, we're killing all of you!" In the other incident a girl stopped to take a picture and was approached by a white male who yelled at her, "go back to your country, or better yet go to North Carolina - they know how to deal with your kind there!"

So I'll admit it. I'm scared out of my mind. I was born and raised in the United States - this is my home. It is the only home I've ever known. I'm American. I'm also muslim. Its my religion, my belief, my faith. But I'm still American - being muslim doesn't make me any less American... or does it? Is that what the news and media are teaching people? You can't be muslim and belong in this country? So no matter how good of a person you are you can be killed in this country because you're muslim? This unfortunately isn't an isolated incident of one crazy guy. This is an illustration of the islamophobia that the mainstream media has put into the hearts of every non-muslim in this country.

So if you want to believe this was just one random crazy white guy who killed three kids over a parking spot, ok cool... keep living under a rock and denying what is really going on. Because the truth is, this was a terroristic hate crime against muslims and just because its the one everyone is talking about today doesn't mean its the only one happening. This is a bigger issue. I don't know the solution but I'm scared for not only the current state of Muslim Americans but even more so for the next generation.. is it just going to get harder? Why can't we all live together in peace?


Tuesday, January 13, 2015

2014 Book Recap

Time to recap the books I read in 2014. Here is a list in chronological order from when I read them throughout the year:

  1. A Game of Thrones (A Song of Fire and Ice #1) by George R.R. Martin - LOVED
  2. Dead and Gone (Sookie Stackhouse Series Book #9) by Charlaine Harris - Liked
  3. The Stranger by Albert Camus - Hated (why did amazon recommend this book to me.. it was one of the dumbest stories I have ever read - I wrote a whole post about how much I hated it)
  4. Dead in the Family (Sookie Stackhouse Series Book #10) by Charlaine Harris - Liked
  5. Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler - LOVED (I think this book should be given to high school girls so they can understand their bodies better - maybe not when you first hit puberty because you are too young to understand at that point but a little later on - so much valuable information!) 
  6. A Clash of Kings (A Song of Fire and Ice #2) by George R.R. Martin - Loved
  7. Belly Laughs by Jenny McCarthy - Didn't like (This book is basically about how Jenny McCarthy felt during her pregnancy - not all of it can be generalized to most women and she has no expertise. Its not even that funny like the reviews said it would be.. Not worth the read).   
  8. The Fault in Our Stars by John Green - LOVED and LOVED the movie even more! Here is my post about the book to movie comparison. 
  9. The Impatient Woman's Guide to Getting Pregnant by Jean M. Twenge Ph.D. - LOVED (great information, straight to the point, loved the way it was written, definitely would recommend this)
  10. Dead Reckoning (Sookie Stackhouse Series Book #11) by Charlaine Harris - Liked 
  11. Deadlocked (Sookie Stackhouse Series Book #12) by Charlaine Harris - Liked
  12. Dead Ever After (Sookie Stackhouse Series Book #13) by Charlaine Harris - Liked 
  13. On Becoming Baby Wise by Gary Ezzo - Loved (Basically a guideline on how to implement good sleep habits in a baby from the beginning and how focusing on daytime naps can help a baby sleep better at night. Some people mistakenly believe that this is all about crying it out and it most definitely is not! Had some really great concepts that make a lot of sense.) 
  14. Expecting Better by Emily Oster - Liked/Didn't Like (mixed feelings - writing style was annoying but content was good, but kind of biased... I probably wouldn't recommend this book- there are so many others out there that are so much better - not really worth it)
  15. Husband Coached Childbirth by Robert A. Bradley - Liked 
  16. A Storm of Swords (A Song of Fire and Ice #3) by George R. R. Martin - Loved
  17. Bringing up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman - Loved (Great comparison of how French and American parenting differs with some valuable takeaways.)
  18. The Guardian by Nicholas Sparks - Loved (Cute romance but slightly predictable, but not quite the normal Nicholas Sparks type.. there is a little more there)
  19. Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn - Liked (Not as good as Gillian Flynn's other books but still not too bad - a little on the stranger side)
  20. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (Harry Potter #1) by J.K. Rowling - Loved
  21. A Great and Terrible Beauty by Libba Bray - Liked 

If you noticed all the parenting/pregnancy books - it is never too early to start preparing! 

As far as series are concerned, I finally finished the Sookie Stackhouse / True Blood series of books and honestly I think they started going downhill a bit after book 8 but I was determined to see it through. I also finished catching up on True Blood, the show, to see how it compared and there are some things I liked better about the books and other things that I liked better about the show. 

I started the Game of Thrones series in 2014 and wow those books are long and kind of drag at some points. There is so much detail, which at times can be great, but sometimes you want to just skip to the point. There are a lot of characters described in such a manner that you can see them in your mind.. and then they die or are no longer in the story for some other reason... WHAT IS THE POINT?! But still... if you get over how long and strenuous of a read the books can be - all of them have amazing plots so far (3 books done.. started on book 4 for 2015).